How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 06:19
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
What sets porcini mushrooms apart from other types of mushrooms, such as button mushrooms?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Did Leonardo da Vinci paint two Mona Lisas? Where are they?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why do some straight men enjoy wearing women's lingerie?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What are the ten cars that make me no longer feel inferior?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Can I study a master’s in travel and tourism in Sweden within a budget of 5 lakhs INR?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What do porn stars do when they get old?
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Procrastinates a lot.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Why am I sweating so much when I try to do anything?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
That's it for today.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Does not procrastinate.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Ask yourself:
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
What I need from you?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Hangs out with loser friends.